Tuesday, 31 March 2020

Spell: Protective Evening Beauty Ritual

Crocheted face pads, viking comb and hair balm displayed alongside crystals and herbs

The other day someone asked me if I have a witchy beauty regime or ritual, and I do, so I thought I’d share.

Each night I cleanse my face with these crocheted face pads. They were made for me by a friend and they’re brilliant because you just throw them in the washing machine; they’re so much better for the environment than cotton pads.

When I get up to my room I sit on the edge of my bed and brush my hair with this beautiful comb my husband gave me. This is quite a feat in the winter because with thick stone walls and no heating it’s very cold. But as I am combing I visualise any negativities from the day being removed, any negative thoughts or energies being sent from others being removed, and I keep going until I am happy.

Once I am done I apply R&B Hair Moisturiser by Lush, which I visualise as a protective barrier (I have enchanted it), which smells amazing! I am now ready to get into bed, snuggle up with my husband, and dream sweet dreams.

Do you have a daily or nightly ritual? 

Sunday, 29 March 2020

Review: The House Witch by Arin Murphy-Hiscock

Copy of The House Witch by Arin Murphy-Hiscock surrounded by crystals and flowers

I’m currently reading The House Witch. Like many Cancerians, my home is super sacred to me, so exploring the energies of hearth and home is an important part of my magical practice.

Hearthcraft is a spiritual path rooted in the belief that the home is not only a sanctuary, but also a place of power.

I love this book because it is such a simple and beautiful read, and provides the reader with lots of ideas on how to embrace the power of the kitchen and home and translating th
at into effective magic. There are recipes, and spells and rituals, and lots of helpful information.

As with all books I tend to dip in and out, and this book is perfect for that. I haven’t read it all, but what I have read I’ve really enjoyed.

What are you reading at the moment?

NEXT - Review: Need To Know Zodiac Types by Collins 

Friday, 20 March 2020

Ritual: Ostara Spring Ritual

Purple candle burning in the centre of a circle of burning tealights

A blessed Ostara everyone! Spring is here, we’re moving towards longer days, the world is waking up, and hopefully your creativity, intuition, and inspiration, are, too! Just as we are ready to celebrate the arrival of Spring, with its cheery daffodils, lambs, and crocuses; we take this time to celebrate the divine also.

Ostara Ritual

The purple candle represents the divine in our lives. You don’t need to believe in a particular deity; it can represent anything you consider divine - including the divine being that is you.
Perform this ritual outside, early in the morning if you can. It is now time to wake up and reconnect with the energies of the Sun and the Earth, and observe the energetic shift as we move through the wheel.


If your tradition requires you to cast a circle, do so.
Light the purple candle.
Steady yourself, breathe the fresh air, observe and acknowledge what is happening around you.


Spring is here, a time for cheer!
We move on swiftly through the year.
The divine makes its presence known,
I observe the changes I am shown.
Flowers, lambs, the growing season,
More intuition, thought, and reason.
Connect again with Mother Earth,
Observe her blossom, and give birth.
Absorb the energy, and the light,
A longer day, a shorter night.
I give thanks for all you give to me;
The Divine, I cherish thee.


Take a moment to meditate on the flame. Think about all that you are grateful for. Think about the divine, and how you fit into this concept. When the time is right end the ritual. 

Friday, 13 March 2020

Simple Magick: Divination & The Clairsenses


Grey filtered image showing a hooded figure facing a tree holding a lit candle in both hands up

I regularly use the tarot and pendulum to ask specific questions, but my best divinatory tool is actually the connection I have to my clairsenses.

Claircognizance is the strongest clairsense I have, and it is a clear, deep knowing. It is an absolute certainty, I feel something as fact, before it has happened. You could describe it as a ‘gut feeling’ but it’s extremely strong. At least that is how it manifests in me.

I experience it in many ways. I know when someone is going to ‘phone me out of the blue, or if I am going to bump into someone (and sometimes I even know who). I have looked at a house and known it will be ours (despite it being impossible on paper), and two weeks ago I knew I was going to break down in my car. I know how certain people will behave before they do so, without previous suggestion.

My gift is backed up with clear visions (clairvoyance), and occasionally with sound, which can trigger visions and a sense of knowing.

The Clairsenses are:

Clairaudience:
Auditory guidance in the form of voices, sounds, or even music.

Claircognizance:
A clear, deep, intuitive knowing.

Clairsentience:
The ability to sense subtle energies that surround you in an environment and glean information from them.

Clairvoyance:
Sometimes called ‘second sight’; a way of divining information through visions, dreaming, or other visual perception. Your intuition speaking through your sense of ‘inner sight.’ 

Monday, 2 March 2020

Personal Magick: What My Craft Means To Me

Shadowy image of a woman wearing a witch's hat looking standing by a window

I was asked yesterday what my craft means to me. Quite simply, it is who I am, the way I live, and how I express myself. It is not lost on me how lucky I am to be living in a time where I can be myself.

The Great Scottish Witch Hunt of 1597 saw 400 people on trial; about 200 were executed. There were to be more Scottish witch hunts during 1628-1631, 1649-1650, and 1661-1662.

Between 1644 and 1646 English ‘witch finder’ Matthew Hopkins was responsible for the execution of 300 alleged witches. The Salem Witch Trials (starting 1st March 1692) saw more than 200 men and women accused. Nineteen were hanged, one pressed to death, and at least four more died in the unbearable conditions of the jail, before being thrown into shallow graves.

I leave the names of the Salem Witch Trial victims here, and ask you to spare a thought for these poor people:

Bridget Bishop - Rebecca Nurse - Sarah Good - Susannah Martin - Elizabeth Howe - Sarah Wildes - George Burroughs - Martha Carrier - John Willard - George Jacobs Snr. - John Proctor - Martha Corey - Mary Eastey - Ann Pudeator - Alice Parker - Mary Parker - Wilmott Red - Margaret Scott - Samuel Wardwell - Giles Corey - Lydia Dustin - Ann Foster - Sarah Osborne - Roger Toothaker.

NEXT - Personal Magick: Stone 

Friday, 28 February 2020

Personal Magick: Stone


The back of a group of people at Stonehenge at dawn

A huge part of my magical practice has been celebrating and worshipping in the presence of huge ancient megaliths... Sacred stones have borne witness to my spiritual devotion many times over the years.

Stone circles have been an obsession since I visited Avebury Stone Circle as a child.

I was immediately captivated and enchanted, energised and enthralled; a feeling that has never left me, and is always present whenever I visit a stone circle, burial chamber, or dolmen.

I have been lucky enough to visit many stone circles around the UK, including the Stones of Stenness and the Ring of Brodgar in Orkney.

I feel happiest with my face touching cold stone, with the wind in my hair, and the sun in my eyes.

NEXT - Personal Magick: Circle
NEXT - Fabulous Folklore: The Hurlers on Bodmin Moor
NEXT - Fabulous Folklore: Nine Ladies Stone Circle 

Wednesday, 26 February 2020

Resin Magick: 8 Resins & Their Magickal Correspondences



Every region has resins, gums, and sacred herbs that bring them closer to the divine. They have been traded since people first came together. In Egypt, Frankincense was burned at sunrise as an offering to Horus, and Myrrh was burned at midday as an offering to the Sun-God Ra. Both are used today for protection and healing.


The Magickal Properties of Resin

Acacia:
Prosperity, fertility, healing, spiritual grounding.

Balsam of Peru:
Happiness, aphrodisiac, visualisation.

Benzoin:
Exotic, sensual, astral travel.

Dammar:
Dispels the demons of depression, healing.

Dragon’s Blood:
Dispels negative energy, protective.

Labdanum:
Sensuous, opens the imagination.

Sandarac:
Stimulates creativity, lifts the soul, freshens.

Storax:
Associated with Hecate, dream and astral work.

Tuesday, 25 February 2020

Personal Magick: Circle


Bard wearing a blue robe in circle at Avebury stone circle with people around him

When I think of today’s Witch With Me prompt, Circle, I think of being ‘in circle.’ There is nothing like joining together with like-minded others to observe and celebrate. I am fairly solitary now due to a change of location, but I have had the blessing of sharing and melding energies with other magical souls many times over the years.

It is wonderful to listen to the poetry and storytelling of the Bards ~ connecting us with the season ~ and to call in the Quarters in the presence of the Arch Druid. To share bread and mead with the Earth and other circle goers; to celebrate and to worship. To join the circle and hold hands with strangers, and to leave the circle with more friends than when we joined.

NEXT - Personal Magick: Favourite Witchcraft Tool 
NEXT - Building Community: Kindness & Compassion
NEXT - Building Community: What Witches Look Like
NEXT - Building Community: Some Thoughts On Social Media 

Monday, 24 February 2020

Media Appearance: Chris Down Art



These are just some of the incredible artworks by Chris Down. @chrisdownart

I’m in two paintings in this picture, can you spot me?

I first met Chris in 2010. Another artist I worked for (see my post on the 12th February) recommended me to Chris, and we started corresponding. We’ve been on several adventures together over the years - some for fun and some in the pursuit of art - and I’m honoured to call Chris a friend, although geography means we don’t get to catch up as much as I’d like.

Chris has been an artist and illustrator for more than 20 years, and has illustrated in excess of 50 books. Check your witchy books - Chris will have illustrated some of them.

Chris illustrated the Celtic Tarot by Kristoffer Hughes and released his new book, Otherworld, last week, which I’m honoured to be on the front cover of.

Sunday, 23 February 2020

Fabulous Folklore: Salt

Black Mortar and pestle containing salt surrounded by blue crystals and tealights

“Salt! Salt! I put thee into the fire, and may the person who has bewitched me neither eat, drink, nor sleep, until the spell has been broken”.

In the 19th Century it was believed that the power of a witch could be destroyed by sprinkling salt into the fire nine mornings in succession. Quite how you protected yourself for the first eight days I do not know!

There are many superstitions surrounding salt. For example chucking it over your left shoulder, should you spill any, to avert bad luck.

You can create Black Witches Salt by combining sea salt, charcoal, incense ash and black pepper. Some witches use salt to represent the element of earth as it is a mineral, and some use it to represent water as it has come from the sea. 

Saturday, 22 February 2020

Sacred Symbols: The Pentagram

Wooden pentagram with dried flowers hanging from the wrought iron doorknob of a wooden door

The Pentagram was used in Babylonia and Ancient Greece, and is found in faiths and traditions around the world. Used by many Witches and Wiccans, the pentagram was banned in many US schools in the 1990s because of perceived associations with Satan. This was later found to be a violation of student rights, and they found their way onto pencil cases, bags and notebooks once more.

Despite being such a misunderstood symbol you can find it on several flags around the world; Morocco and Ethiopia’s national flag, and on city flags for Nagasaki (Japan) and Haaksbergen (Netherlands).

In the Chinese tradition the five points represent wood, fire, earth, metal, water; and for those of a Pagan persuasion it is usually earth, air, fire, water and Spirit.

I have both a pentagram and a pentacle (pentagram contained in a circle) tattooed on me; it is an honour to carry these symbols with me at all times.

NEXT - Sacred Symbols: The Om
NEXT - Simple Magick: 12 Tips For New Witches 

Tuesday, 18 February 2020

Personal Magick: Our Handfasting Besom

Woman in a navy blue cloak bending down by a witch's besom with a red ribbon, with rosemary in her hand

I’m filled with so much joy when I see this picture. This is my lovely friend and Witch-Sister Noelle decorating our hand-fasting besom with Rosemary just before our ceremony at Beltane, 2016. It was such a lovely day, although it was very windy, and absolutely freezing, as it usually is at Avebury Stone Circle. We were hand-fasted by our friend Terry Dobney, the Arch Druid of Avebury.

The best part of the day was ‘Jumping the Broom’ where you jump over the broom together, symbolising the leap from your old life into the new.

I got so caught up in the moment I panicked when I saw the besom at shoulder height - I had totally forgotten that it gets dropped down at the last minute, even though I’ve held the besom myself at others’ handfasting - silly me! 

Monday, 17 February 2020

Tasseography


Day 17 #witchwithme – TASSEOGRAPHY

Tasseography is a method of divination which involves the reading of tea leaves, coffee grounds, or wine sediments. It’s not an art I practice, and as I don’t like tea or coffee (and I don’t drink!), it would be a bit tricky! However, I couldn’t help but admire these gorgeous cups and saucers at the Covenstead B&B in Glastonbury.

It is believed that Tasseography can be traced to medieval fortune tellers who used molten wax and lead, reading the splatters - sounds dangerous! This evolved into tea-leaf reading in the 17th Century.

Many interpretations for symbols exist; these can be people, animals, inanimate objects. When I look at these cups I really wish I liked tea.

Wednesday, 12 February 2020

Emotion


Day 12 #witchwithme - EMOTION

This photograph was taken back in August 2011 as I was being shown the first ever painting I was to appear in (Lost Between the Wonder and the Why by Neil Geddes-Ward).


I was really proud, and very honoured, to have been chosen for this project, and to represent normal, Pagan women everywhere. I went on to sit as reference for 8 more paintings, including appearing in a tarot deck, and posing naked for a fine artist.

This experience helped me overcome some fairly serious self-esteem issues, and taught me that everyone has something beautiful to offer. A belief I always had, but which now extends to myself.


Monday, 10 February 2020

The Element of Earth


Day 10 #witchwithme – ELEMENT

We can use the element of Earth easily. We can gather soil, rocks, plants, crystals, and herbs for our magical practice; we can ingest the element of Earth when we eat our food, making us feel grounded and connected to source. We can take our shoes and socks off and feel the earth beneath our feet. We can visit ancient earthworks and Ley lines, and other natural places of wonder.

Earth energy is feminine, grounding, nurturing, strong, and life affirming; it is honest, raw, reassuring and productive. It is also fierce, wild, and raging.

Earth is the basis and foundation of all elements, which is why I love it so.

Sunday, 9 February 2020

Moon Magick: The Snow Moon

Book with the moon on the front surrounded by lots of blue items such as a box of incense, flowers and crystals

Some call it the Hunger Moon, others the Storm Moon (appropriate for us in the U.K. currently getting battered by Storm Ciara), and others the Snow Moon due to the snow on the ground at this time of year. The Snow Moon is the full moon in February, and once in every 19 years or so February does not have one.

The Full Moon is the perfect time in the lunar cycle for setting intentions and asking questions. How can I live more consciously? What do I need to let go of? What am I going to work on? How can I be more helpful to others?

I have made my intentions ready to be cast into my ritual fire tonight, so for now, it’s time to curl up and enjoy this book about the Moon.

“The elegance of the Moon teaches us to be elegant and kind.” 
~ Debasish Mridha

Saturday, 8 February 2020

Natural Remedies: Lavender Salve

Mortar and Pestle next to a jar of dried lavender surrounded by books, candles and crystals in shades of blue

To create Lavender Salve you must first create some Lavender Oil:

Fill a jar halfway with dried Lavender. Cover with carrier oil, cap, leave in cool, dark place (shaking occasionally) for 4-6 weeks. Strain.

To make the salve you will need:

LAVENDER SALVE

Ingredients:
 
100g/3.5oz Lavender Oil.
15g/0.5oz Beeswax - or half as much Candelilla Wax for a Vegan alternative.
A heatproof tin or jar.
Small tins or jars.
Lavender Essential Oil (optional).

Method:
Put the wax into the jar/can.
Put the jar/can into a saucepan containing an inch or two of water.
Place on a medium heat until wax has melted.
Mix in the Lavender Oil.
Add in a few drops of Lavender Essential Oil (optional).
Pour into small tins or jars and leave for a few hours to harden.

The salve will last approximately 9 months to a year. Use to soothe bug bites/stings, on temples for headache relief, on wrists and neck for perfume, and to reduce sunburn healing time. 

Friday, 7 February 2020

Moon Magick: Making Moon Water

Jar of Moon Water surrounded by blue crystals, books, herbs and candles

The simplest potion there is: Moon Water.

The Moon is an amplifier, its energy strongest at Full Moon, and it has strong cleansing properties. Moon Water is simply water that has been charged by the Full Moon and bears these properties.

You can use Moon Water for all sorts of wonderful things; energising crystals, blessings, rituals or spells that require water, moon baths, perfumes, charged drinking water, watering plants and magical herbs... the list is endless.

Collect water in your chosen vessel and leave out under a Full Moon for an entire night. Bless your water and set your intentions. 

What do you use Moon Water for? 

Thursday, 6 February 2020

Simple Magick: The Shadow

Shadow of a couple cast down a driveway towards a stone house with trees on the left


Today’s Witch With Me prompt immediately made me think of The Shadow, which is the psychological term for everything we can’t (or perhaps won’t) see in ourselves. You can no more get rid of this inner shadow than you can avoid casting an outer shadow in the sunlight.

It is hard to see one’s own Shadow; it is natural to want to deny anything unflattering. Whilst avoiding this ‘darker side’ we actually stunt our opportunity for growth and development; and in expending energy avoiding our true selves, we often miss the positive attributes of our personality.

Exploring The Shadow can lead to greater authenticity, which in turn leads to greater happiness, fulfilment, and creativity.

I have been doing a lot of work on my Shadow, and I am learning to love every part of myself, as I stumble through each situation and experience.

Photo is of Mr Cemetery and I looking down toward our house.

NEXT - Simple Magick: 65 Colour Correspondences 

Wednesday, 5 February 2020

Simple Magick: Using Snow in Magick

Snow covering trees and rooftops, casting a blue light over everything

I love the strange light quality when it snows, and the eerie silence. I love venturing outside and seeing the magical transformation,but being forced inside is also a blessing. The peace sharpens my focus, and this is the perfect time for spellwork and meditation.

You can incorporate snow into your spellwork in place of water; light fluffy snow can be used in a ritual for peace and tranquility, and imagine what you can do with full moon charged snowflakes!

Make snowmen into large poppets, form bad habits into snowballs, launching them away from you. Take a walk in the peace, and make intentions for the month ahead, visualising them being manifested as the snow melts away.

NEXT - Simple Magick: Folklore, Traditional Witchcraft & The Lincoln Imp

Tuesday, 4 February 2020

Simple Magick: 65 Colour Correspondences


You only have to scroll through my Instagram news feed to see that I LOVE colour! Each colour has its own vibration, which is why it’s so important in magic.

The most obvious way to use colour is in candle magic, but these correspondences can be applied to anything within spellwork; ribbons, paper, clothes, etc.


Magickal Correspondences for Colour

Yellow:
Disputes, happiness, mental clarity, communication, goals


Pink:
Love, self-love, friendship, emotions, healing the heart

Green:
Healing, nature, fertility, abundance, luck, prosperity

Blue:
Protection, calm, spiritual matters, legal issues, integrity

Red:
Passion, sex, lust, health, attraction, vitality, strength, courage, fast action

Orange:
Business, success, justice, opportunity, celebration, positivity

Purple:
Wisdom, consciousness, spiritual development, psychic ability

Brown:
Home, animals, stability, family, material goods, pets

Gold:
Wealth, masculinity, luck, Sun

Silver:
Intuition, home, dreams, femininity, The Moon

Black:
Protection, banishing, obstacles, decisions

White:
Purity, peace, higher self, unity, any type of spell, blessings

NEXT - Simple Magick: Thorns

Monday, 3 February 2020

Simple Magick: Thorns

Hand displaying a twig with thorns with blue flowers and candles and crystals in the background

Thorns are protective; they are a defence against predators, and can cut, pierce and draw blood, which gives them powerful energy. Thorn magic is special because it allows for vulnerability whilst establishing a protective boundary. For example, they are useful to those who wish to be available and vulnerable in love again after heartache.

Thorns can be useful in spellworkings to protect, heal, and hex; placing a thorn in a tincture can increase its strength and potency. Long thorns (eg Blackthorn) can be used in place of pins in poppets, which can also be used for healing, love and friendship.

Use thorns with ink to write magical text, carry as a charm, or use to pierce negative ‘bubbles’. There are many plants that possess strong thorn energy: Hawthorn, Rose, Bramble, Blackthorn and Gooseberry to name but a few. 

Sunday, 2 February 2020

Review: Need To Know Zodiac Types by Collins

Woman's hand holding a copy of Need to Know Zodiac Types by Collins

Today's #witchwithme prompt over on Instagram is sun sign, so I thought I’d share one of my favourite books; Collins Need to Know - Zodiac Types.

This is such a wonderful book; accurate, easy to digest, and lots of helpful information.

Your star sign - or sun sign, as it’s more accurately known - is the sign the Sun happens to be occupying at the time of your birth. It has a strong bearing on the basic elements of your character, though of course the planets in various
 parts of the zodiac also play a part, too.

This book would suit a beginner; it has a good introduction into Astrological terms, symbols and sun sign tables - however it is valuable to everyone as it has a wealth of information on each of the twelve signs. It is useful for magical work as it details correspondences for each sign - colour, plants, gemstones etc - plus lots of other helpful information. If you’ve wanted to step into Astrology but haven’t been sure where to start this book is for you.

NEXT - Review: Spirit Nest Oven Mitts 

Saturday, 1 February 2020

Pagan Holidays: Imbolc

Viewpoint looking up towards the spire of a large stone chapel with blue sky in the background

A blessed Imbolc everyone!

Imbolc is about half way between the Winter Solstice and the Spring Equinox and celebrates the first stirrings of Spring.

This period of growth, gestation, and birth makes it feel like a time of beginnings, and so for me it feels like the beginning of the year, trumping Samhain (the Witches New Year) and January 1st.

I have chosen today’s bright blue sky for my #witchwithme Imbolc submission, as when I think of Imbolc I think of the blue skies and sunshine that are now (occasionally!) making an appearance.
We have brighter days with a noticeable change in light quality, and with that comes a change of attitude, as well as feelings of rebirth and renewal. It is a time of magic and transformation; and of hope: the return of the light we celebrated at the Winter Solstice is now confirmed. The Sun is returning!

Monday, 27 January 2020

Personal Magick: Favourite Witchcraft Tool

Copy of The Art of Wiccan Healing by Sally Morningstar laid next to some white flowers

One last challenge before the #witchwithme challenge on Instagram starts properly on 1st February. Today’s prompt is favourite witchy tool. 

You might expect me to say runes or wand or some other obvious tool, but for me it’s actually reference books.

Some 6 or so years ago I developed a couple of chronic conditions which really affect my cognitive function. When I am trying to write a ritual or spell and my brain is blank they give me a framework, or when I know what I want 
to say about a particular subject but am struggling to find the words, reading about the subject helps to kick start my brain. When I can’t remember something, I can look it up.
And when I am really having trouble, I can just follow what someone else has written instead.


It used to make me frustrated, but now I just go with the flow. I know that my intention setting and practical spell work are strong enough for this not to matter. And if we’re honest it’s actually no different to referring to a cookbook or dictionary.

As a disabled Witch I am so grateful for books.

NEXT - Personal Magick: Home
NEXT: Simple Magick: The Witch's Stang
NEXT - Simple Magick: The Mind

Friday, 24 January 2020

Moon Magick: New Moon in Aquarius

List of full moons and new moons for 2020 surrounded by white flowers

Sometimes I feel the New Moon gets a little overlooked by the fizz and pop of the Full Moon. The Full Moon might be about making the intention, but the New Moon is all about manifesting the intention - and that also means doing the work!

The New Moon asks you to check what you are drawing into your life. This New Moon in Aquarius falls on the 24th (today!), and there is a continued emphasis on necessary shedding, purging and processing emotions, thought processes, and behavi
ours, to meet the intentions made at the Full Moon.

This will be a time to focus on Aquarian ideas - rethink, repurpose, reimagine, and even recycle.

New Moons tend to make us want to plant new seeds and start afresh, be that new attitudes or new projects; so if it feels right, go for it! But be careful what you wish for.

The New Moon promises us that if we put the hard work in, we will be rewarded. Using our intuition is important at this time - we are essentially working blind without the Sun’s illumination, and with only the light of our intuition to guide us - so we must be careful in our interaction with others. Be wary of being tricked or manipulated.

The theme of this month is spiritual awakening, and after the strong Cancer energies of the last Full Moon, this Aquarius energy will feel like a breath of fresh air! 
But there will also be change and upheaval, so grounding and self-care are a must; carry a Kambaba Jasper with you for calming reassurance and comfort.

Wednesday, 22 January 2020

Personal Magick: Home

A large, carriage-arch, stone, gothic revival building

This building is more than just stone. It is my first home, my pride and joy, my sanctuary, the path back to my Craft, and the journey back to sanity.

In the years running up to 2018 I was deeply depressed. Much of this down to a situation I haven’t yet fully escaped, but basically we were frustrated, unhappy, and lacking in direction.
We lived in a beautiful house in a beautiful place, but it wasn’t right.

After much soul-searching on where we should be, I found this amazing house. In late 2018 we moved in. .

Freezing cold in the winter, full of spiders in the autumn, but such an honour to live in so magical a place, and in some small way to be a part of its history.

I know the heartbeat of this place, this cemetery that is very much alive. I know every tree, every flower, every shrubb. I love how the moon bathes me in her light as I lay in my bed. I love our wooden floors and metre-thick walls. I love our living room; once the old storeroom for spades and headstones.

I love looking out the kitchen window as I wash up; weaving magic as I focus my thoughts. I love the rabbits at sunrise in the summer; I welcome the Starlings as they return to their nest in the eaves above the kitchen.

I love our collection of higgledy-piggledy staircases - no less than four - and I love the way this old stone house embraces us; breathing life back into us, while the bodies of those that have gone before surround us.
I love that this amazing place has held us in its womb, and given us space and time to recognise each other again. That my husband can see his wild, witchy woman once more.

Who would have thought this ancient, crumbling building would have given us so much; would have given me so much?